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movinon (movinon)
10-15-2005, 04:40 PM
When someone is a part of a place like CC, it not only becomes part of your life, it invades every aspect of who you are, what you want, and where you are going. It literally becomes the superstructure and the infrastructure of your life.

I realize that there are many groups like CC in this world. When our world imploded, then exploded, we thought our experience was unique and that no one had ever seen such happenings before! We soon found out that this wasn't true, and that the words of Solomon were still very wise and accurate, if not fatalistic, that there really was nothing new under the sun!

Over these last 20ish years since my departure from CC, it has been a very up and down bumpy sort of ride. I attempted time and time again to make things work within a system of beliefs and practices that kept hindering the very goal I was attempting to attain. Therefore, I began to look at the beliefs and practices with a much more critical eye. The farther I get away from the insanity that was CC, and that is still much of the charismatic world, the more sane and normal I,myself, feel, think, and act.

When I look at the many people who still attempt to defend and justify CC and its beliefs and practices, I see, much to my dismay and deep concern, a phoenix of the old ways rising from the ashes. It frightens and concerns me more than words can say. I see how easy it is for human beings to fall right back into a mode of thinking that was anything but honestly Biblical, in my estimation from my current perspective. I see a monster coming up again, masquerading as love and truth. How long will it take before people realize that this monster is really devouring them?

I realize at this point in my life that nothing I say will even make a remote dent in anyone's thinking about this thing, if they are of the mind to continue to believe in it, defend it, justify it, and support. It has been a hard lesson for me to learn, but letting it go and moving on with my life and growth is the only answer for me. Letting go of people and things that have been such a part of my life (positively in some cases and negatively in others) has caused me pain and emotional upset, but it is the only way for me to regroup and recoup my life and spiritual existance.

It still isn't easy to be misjudged and misunderstood by those I have left behind, but I have come to the conclusion that if this is one cost of my freedom, then it is a cost I'm now willing to pay. In many respects, my life is really just starting and I'm loving what I'm finding as I'm allowing myself to move away more and more from the things that once held me in their all-encompassing grip.



mo

steve (steve)
10-15-2005, 07:08 PM
Thanks for this posting, mo. I agree with almost everything in it. I do, however, waver between just walking away from the CCG board, not even reading it anymore, and sticking around there to stand up as a former member against the sheer perversity of many of the things we were conditioned to accept there. So far I'm still thinking the second option is best, although I can also see why others would go the other way.

movinon (movinon)
10-15-2005, 07:26 PM
It's a personal choice...and one I don't judge others for one way or the other. Believe me, it's my nature to fight for what I feel is right and just, but I've learned over the years that I must choose those battles with much more wisdom than I did in times past. I truly loathe injustice, and it irritates me almost more than anything...but there are other ways to affectively influence the fight in these areas, and it is in these avenues I hope to be able to accomplish a more positive outcome.

mo

steve (steve)
10-15-2005, 10:00 PM
mo,

I see from his board that you've now become a target of Phil's also. Welcome to the club.

It did remind of one thing I wanted to say here that I'm also going to post to the one I started today (Interesting Chapel Baggage - Part II): I am through with responding here to things that Phil writes only on his own board. If he wants me to respond to his pompous and self-righteous accusations, he can post them here. Otherwise, I'm done addressing his absurd worldview, particularily his tiresome charge that Steve M and I are "molesting" or "violating" his daughter because we post comments on the little circus he has created on his own board about that episode. The fact that everyone is now reading about the episode on three different Internet forums is due only to his own foolishness and poor judgment, and, in my opinion, to his raging desire to tear down his own brother.

movinon (movinon)
10-15-2005, 10:07 PM
Steve,

You know, it's just too bad that people have to resort to such ridiculous behavior to get attention and feel validated. The interesting thing to me is that when I replied to "estranged" I wasn't even sure who he was (until later and a very strong gut feeling). I wasn't even addressing anything to do with the very unfortunate circumstances of the whole issue over anyone's children. I was simply addressing the arrogant and self-righteous attitude I percieved in his post. The problem is that some people ONLY hear what they want to hear and twist everything around to feed their own distorted views of things. That, I can do nothing about, and I learned a long time ago, that arguing with a brick wall gets me no where fast.

mo

calv (calv)
10-16-2005, 02:13 PM
mo

Way to call it for what it is!

calv (calv)
10-16-2005, 02:33 PM
We don’t need no education.
We don’t need no thought control.
No dark sarcasm in the classroom.
Teacher, leave those kids alone.
Hey, teacher, leave those kids alone!
All in all it’s just another brick in the wall.
All in all you’re just another brick in the wall.
We don’t need no education.
We don’t need no thought control.
No dark sarcasm in the classroom.
Teachers, leave those kids alone.
Hey, teacher, leave those kids alone!
All in all you’re just another brick in the wall.
All in all you’re just another brick in the wall.

pink floyd