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david_macadam (david_macadam)
04-25-2005, 02:25 AM
A friend of more than 30 years, Jim Faucett, suggested that I share my story on this website, informing me that a good number of friends we have known in the past have posted here. Some might be interested in our story.

A number of people have told me that Carl Stevens said that I was guilty of ‘a sin unto death’ when I left ‘The Bible Speaks’ more than twenty years ago. In the words of Mark Twain, “Reports of my death have been greatly exaggerated”.

By God’s grace, my wife, MaryEllen, and I have been wonderfully blessed over the years and continue to serve the Lord joyfully in whatever way we can. I have served as a pastor for thirty years with my wife as my best friend and partner in ministry. Our three children are all knowing the Lord and making Him known. Our exodus from ‘The Bible Speaks’ was gradual, beginning when we left to minister in England, where we had to unlearn many of the things we had absorbed in our particularly American experience of Christianity, until the early eighties, when the final ‘coup de grace’ took place.

MaryEllen and I were married at the little chapel on the small campus of the North East School of the Bible in South Berwick, Maine, in May of 1975. Tom Schaller was my best man. Mary Chardon (Hennessey) was MaryEllen’s bridesmaid. (They still keep in touch and pray for each other on the phone). There were at least 24 in the wedding party and a wonderful assembly of people with whom our hearts were knit; our stories intertwining with laughter, faith, tears, struggle, zeal, answered prayer, fond memories and, most importantly, a love for Jesus. A good number of us had graduated from Bible College the night before. The love for God was real and was reflected in the way we loved and served one another.

Fast forward to the summer of 1983. After eight years overseas, on a short visit to the States, I am meeting at a fast food restaurant in Lenox, Massachusetts where TBS relocated. I am asked by a Carl Stevens devotee: “Who is your shepherd?” “The Lord is my shepherd” is my response. That wasn’t good enough. What was this strange doctrine of being “baptized unto a man?” (1 Corinthians 10:2) Surely they didn’t believe this man was Carl Stevens?

I have no regrets about saying ‘Adieu’ to a place where the ground of fellowship had become something other than the merits and shared life of Christ. I sensed that misplaced loyalties and affections were not only encouraged but they were expected.

Sectarianism, as I see it, is when your ‘group identity’ eclipses your ‘gospel identity’; where ‘who you are in relationship to the group’ becomes more important than ‘who you are in relationship to Christ’.

The Apostle Paul’s story was different. In his letter to the Corinthians he wrote, “For we preach not ourselves, but Christ Jesus the Lord; and ourselves your servants for Jesus' sake.” (2 Corinthians 4:5)

I once saw these men as signposts to Jesus. But somehow they had turned, or been turned. It’s no wonder that those who were looking to them to find their way were losing their bearings and spinning off the road.

Our visit to Lenox in 1984 was like a trip into the Twilight Zone. Those with whom we had shared years of friendship now shunned us, feared us, or slandered us.

Paul’s admonition to the believers in Rome was one that we took to heart: “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” It was clear that under the circumstances, it was no longer possible to walk with TBS without compromising our beliefs and our God-given personhood. We never returned.

There were clues of an unhealthy sectarianism and peculiar ‘goings on’ way back in the early days of 1972- 75. There were many who exercized their conscience to be void of offense, and challenged the teaching and yet were shot down by being maligned. As a spiritual novice I watched this happen. Already the glorious truth of the body of Christ was distorted to the degree that all inferences were that ‘the body’ meant ‘The Bible Speaks’ and ‘the ministry’ referred to being under Carl Steven’s ministry rather than our free partaking of ‘the ministry of the Spirit of the Lord Jesus Christ within’ which we mercifully receive by grace (2 Cor 4:1). And why did Carl Stevens need a doctorate from a diploma mill? “The Body’ became ‘the life’ instead of Christ Himself being celebrated and shared as the common life of the body. There was a progressive ‘eccentricity’, a going off center. And how could anyone permit the Book of Miracles to be printed? But at the time many of us were unfamiliar with the larger spiritual landscape and as young drivers did not have the experience to skillfully negotiate these bumps in the road. Nor could we see clearly what was ahead.

In 1975 I had expressed that we had not gone to England to start a Bible Speaks franchise, even though, an American brochure had been printed with a message to the contrary and we were therefore perceived as such. My statement was not rebellion, arrogance or pride, but an expression of the facts that I can detail at a later date. Our going to England was the result of our involvement in a regular Friday night prayer for world missions, and our writing letters to non-Bible Speaks missionaries and hearing back from them. There were no TBS teams gone out from South Berwick yet apart from the short term excursions with Operation Mobilization. (Plans were underway for a team to go to Finland with Deanna Stoddard and Jaqui Gough who previously served there). Our prayer was that we would all discern how we can best serve the purposes of God in our generation.

Our work has always been, and continues to be, one of evangelism and discipleship. Over the years this has resulted in church planting and mission. By God’s grace we are consistently greeted with the encouraging news from various parts of the world that good fruit remains. For the past eighteen years we have been based in a church we planted in Concord, Massachusetts, where we live next to Walden Pond, and have sent missionaries to Asia, Europe, South and Central America, The Caribbean, The MiddleEast, and most recently Kyrgyzstan. We have started a number of missions including New Life Fine Arts, a ministry of and for Christian performing and visual artists, that specializes in producing full-length musical dramas in theaters. Our original Christ-centered musicals have been produced in Israel, England as well as here in New England. (It is a joy to have had Glenn and Joanne Gray and their nine children involved.)

We never regretted saying ‘goodbye’ to the eccentricity. In hindsight, we regret we did not leave earlier when we had so many warning signs and misgivings. We apologize to all we encouraged to participate in something that would eventually cause so much hurt and disappointment. I was 19 years old when I got involved and 22 when I left for England. As I tell our kids, “Your brain is not fully formed until you are 25!” (All kidding aside, I regret anytime I have not been a signpost to Jesus and in anyway have been a stumbling block to anyone.)

Anytime the Holy Spirit is robbed of His rightful place as the Sovereign Lord of the individual believer’s conscience by the influence of another, you have some form of spiritual abuse. We cannot allow that to happen. Fear God and not men. “Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is kept safe.” (Proverbs 29:25)

Dmacadam@newlife.org
(Message edited by David_macadam on April 24, 2005)

(Message edited by David_macadam on April 24, 2005)

buggin (buggin)
04-25-2005, 02:34 AM
I hope you feel compelled to continue your narrative soon. I find it very informative.
Thanks for taking J.F's advice on this.

dinaweena (dinaweena)
04-25-2005, 02:35 AM
wow...

offshore (offshore)
04-25-2005, 03:30 AM
David and MaryEllen,
We are so happy that you are here!!

WELCOME !

Can we perhaps expect to see you both, with Glenn and Joanne, at our reunion in August?

Thank you for sharing your story. It offers much hope to those who are now going through the confusing and painful time of "falling from grace" and leaving GGWO.

We are also very grateful that the "rumors of your untimely death", were not only greatly exagerated, but completely untrue."

david_macadam (david_macadam)
04-25-2005, 03:46 AM
We have rehearsals for our musical "Ruth" on that weekend in August and we will not be able to get away. The show is based on the Biblical story of love and redemption and opens at the Chevalier Theater in Medford, Massachusetts in September.

(Message edited by David_macadam on April 24, 2005)

jim_kennedy (jim_kennedy)
04-25-2005, 03:50 AM
Welcome to Factnet, David Macadam. Your story and walk with God are needed here.

Jim

c_la_verite (c_la_verite)
04-25-2005, 03:54 AM
Yep!!!

bruder5 (bruder5)
04-25-2005, 03:58 AM
I'd suggest that a 5 hour stint at the reunion would give you enough material to get to broadway. Welcome David I still have a great b+w photo of two dogs on the beach you took years ago.

david_macadam (david_macadam)
04-25-2005, 04:01 AM
I will never forget the photoshoot at Popham. At least I had film in the camera that day!

(Message edited by David_macadam on April 25, 2005)

minutus (minutus)
04-25-2005, 04:08 AM
Welcome, David.

Dave Carson
FACTNet Merry Prankster (sometimes)

cape_cod (cape_cod)
04-25-2005, 06:24 AM
David Macadam,

Well, welcome to FACTNet David.

I loved reading your above story and hopefully you'll be inspired to write many more.

I've had the pleasure of hearing you preach / teach a handful of times in the late 70's while you were visiting in Lenox and I was extremely impressed and blessed with your presentation.

Back in the summer of 1978, my wife (Marion) and I had dinner with you and your wife, along with another couple, Rick and Karen Hyman, and I very much enjoyed meeting and talking with you. When I was in TBS back in the 70's, I always saw you as a true man of God.

David, it's so good to see that you've gone on with your ministry and still serving the Lord.

My wife and I just have to make it to one of your plays. I've known a number of people who have gone to your different plays and have been truly blessed.

I sure would enjoy seeing you at 'The Reunion in August'. I'm sure a lot of people would love to see you and MaryEllen. Are you sure that you can't rearrange your play rehearsal schedule a bit, so that you could come!?!

Please say hello to Glenn Gray for me. Did you say nine children!?! Yikes!!!

God bless,
Joe Hanson

(Message edited by cape cod on April 25, 2005)

herroyalhighness (herroyalhighness)
04-25-2005, 03:44 PM
Hello David -

So good to see your voice here! Thanks for sharing - I hope you'll stick around. My best to MaryEllen.

Alanna

lee (lee)
04-25-2005, 04:04 PM
Thanks for sharing the road you and family have travelled. Both of you have always been a light of hope for us.

lee

david_macadam (david_macadam)
04-25-2005, 04:15 PM
Good to hear from all of you.

David and MaryEllen

linda_kern (linda_kern)
04-25-2005, 10:08 PM
Hello David. When I was in Lenox (79-81) I wanted so bad to be a part of the England Team. I ended up going to Lake Elsinore instead. I was able to visit your ministry later after I left Lenox with my friend, Lesley Blackmore.

bob_brinton (bob_brinton)
04-26-2005, 02:01 AM
Welcome David and MaryEllen. Thank you for joining us. And if you can somehow manage to be with us in August, your presence is greatly desired. If not, maybe next year?

deb (deb)
04-26-2005, 02:05 AM
David,

So VERY good to hear your voice again! You and MaryEllen were a huge help to me, in the early 90's, when my marriage was ending and my daughter was so very sick. I remember telling you how I was finding it so difficult to turn to a church for help, b/c I felt as if I'd been "religiously innoculated" and you completely understood. You were very gracious, and enocuraged me more than I can say.

Please hug MaryEllen for me.

Things are "well with my soul" once again, I'm so thankful to say!

Love,
Deb

david_macadam (david_macadam)
04-26-2005, 03:00 AM
Hi Deb,

I happily delivered your hug. MaryEllen and I were so pleased to find so many friends we have lost contact with in one place. This forum is very new to us and we are not that familiar with how to post here. Our email is Dmacadam@newlife.org if any want to contact us.

David

the_general (the_general)
04-26-2005, 03:09 AM
David,I read your story and was surprised at how similar some of your experiances were to mine in a group I was a part of.If your interested go to the thread about Homstead Heritage on this site.

louise_connolly (louise_connolly)
04-26-2005, 03:55 AM
Hi David & Mary Ellen:

It is great to read your post. I appreciate your posting an apology ‘to all you encouraged to participate in something that would eventually cause so much hurt and disappointment’. I being one who was greatly influenced to go to the cult called 'The Bible Speaks' when your team infiltrated our coffee house in Peabody, MA and you as our Bible study leader began to lead us astray. Little did we all know at the time how you were being ‘used’. It is a healing balm to read and accept your sincere apology. I know 'all things work together for the good to those who love God' but for me gong to 'The Bible Speaks' was a definite wrong turn. I am grateful that God has sustained me through all my poor decisions.

It means a lot to me and to all of us once involved in the cult called TBS/GGWO to have someone who was a leader in the early cult days tell the truth. Steve Quinlan and David MacAdams are two gifted Bible teachers. It warms my heart to know that both of you got out of the unhealthy cult and were able to become real pastors. It is wonderful that Mary Ellen and you have been able to serve God with all your gifts in a healthy place. I have heard via word of mouth of your ministry over the years and wish you all the best.

Peace & Blessings,
Louise (Maguire back then)Connolly

david_macadam (david_macadam)
04-26-2005, 05:11 AM
Good to hear from you, Louise. I do ask forgiveness for any part I had in your taking any wrong turn.

I remember how we first met you in Peabody. Back in the early 70s I was sharing the gospel through music with David and Sandy Bennett (in a folk-band called 'Spikenard'). We did the coffeehouse circuit along the NorthEast Seaboard (from Maine to New York). My particular focus was more on sharing Christ through words and music in a small concert format. David Bennett was a great organizer and kept our schedule full.

After a short-term mission trip with OM in Mexico, we had a sincere desire to invest more in the lives of those in the coffee house audiences which resulted in Discipleship Weekends. The follow-up activity of those weekends, in many cases, led to the establishment of local Bible Studies. It was never our intention that these groups be absorbed by the Bible Speaks, but they did. Again if I was a twisted signpost to you Louise, I deeply apologize and ask for forgiveness.

I think we were somewhat blinded to the abberations of TBS, even at that time, because we were so excited by our rich experience of community and the prospect of growing together in the knowledge of Christ with friends.

True fellowship, as Bonhoeffer said, is "Life together under the Word". The danger is when that 'life together' shifts from joint-participation in the Life-Giving authority of the Word (of which we are called to freely partake and minister to one another) to an 'other' unhealthy kind of authority that engenders bondage rather than liberty.

Bonhoeffer contrasts the psychological control of personality cults and human communities with Christ-centered, liberating, spiritual communities in his book "Life Together": "The fellowship of the human community is composed of devout souls and works along the lines of the magnetic persuasion of a leader. The fellowship of Christ is ruled by God’s Word. In the one community the Spirit rules, in the other, psychological techniques."

I am grateful that God is greater than GGWO and can bring healing to damaged souls and restore us all to the kind of fellowship that is a foretaste of heaven.

If we are to let Him do so, we must begin with repentance, be renewed in forgiveness and walk in faith,

It's great to be in contact again.

Yours because we are His,

David

(Message edited by David_macadam on April 26, 2005)

dave_drago (dave_drago)
04-26-2005, 05:06 PM
Dave,
It is great to read your story. Welcome to FN

cape_cod (cape_cod)
04-26-2005, 07:01 PM
David,

I see your words above mixed with sweet repentance, which ALWAYS sets us free because of God's abounding grace. I also see your words ministering true wisdom, based in truth. I think the main reason that I always viewed you as such a godly man was due to your humility and deep faith.

I was only "in" TBS only for about four and a half years (1976-1981), but in that time two of my favorite teachers were Steve Quinlan and you, even though I had NOT heard you speak very many times. You left a definite impression on this relatively new Christian. Do you by any chance remember speaking a message one evening in 76' or 77' at the Lee Manor, where Stan Ashby and Chet Farmer lived? There were NOT very many people there, but being good friends with Chet, he invited me to come and it was simply a fantastic evening of teaching and worship. I saw the humility in you and saw you as so Christ-like. Anyway, just wanted to say thank you for a wonderful evening, so long ago.

BTW- Did anyone ever tell you back in the 70's that you resembled Phil Keaggy on the 'What A Day' album cover?*chuckle* That was my very first Christian album back in the summer of 1976 and I still love that album.

Could you please post your church's web site. As I said above, my wife and I would love to come to one of your plays that I've heard so much about. We live in Saco, Maine which is probably only a couple of hours from your church.

Thanks,
Joe

ralphwells (ralphwells)
04-26-2005, 08:06 PM
Joe - actually he was better looking than Phil.http://www.factnet.org/discus/clipart/lol.gif Welcome David! Really did enjoy your singing though.

david_macadam (david_macadam)
04-27-2005, 12:29 AM
Here are the links you requested to our websites:

http://www.newlife.org

http://www.newlifefinearts.org

David

(Message edited by David_macadam on April 26, 2005)

ericlaw (ericlaw)
04-27-2005, 02:00 AM
Great sites David. Your church seems full of life. Too bad I don't live up north.