Where are CHSbs supposed friends

[bjerwin (bjerwin)]

I write this post in sadness. 2 weeks ago this morning, my lawyer boss died needlessly. He was 44 and needed help. There are alot of similarilities between his "sickness" and CHS's. 20 hours before he died, I questioned what he was doing to his body. I made 2 other friends/employees question him also. He thanked us for being his true friends that day. We called his family the next morning, and started the ball rolling to force him to get help. We were hours too late.

I see CHS and his supposed friends. We all know who they are. They are his "true blues" who refuse to listen to the Holy Spirit and get their "friend" help. Some are afraid that he will fire them (we were too) and that they will be out of a job. Others are afraid they will disown him either in family or friendship and "mark them". Whatever the reason, it is not the remarkable "if I perish, I perish" faith of Esther.

I know CHS has done it to himself, as did my boss. I know many have tried talking to him and failed and did "perish". I know many have given up and are in the process of leaving.

However to those that remain, if you are reading this, search the scriptures, search your hearts, and get some balls and help your "friend", if he truly is your friend. It might be too late tomorrow.

It is too bad that all of CHS's true friends were marked and hated and left many years ago. I know he did this to himself. But, jeepers, is there no remaining "true friends" that he has that will keep on keeping on in his life?

Thanks for listening, been a very sad two weeks.

[minutus (minutus)]

Sorry to hear about your friend, BJ http://www.factnet.org/discus/clipart/sad.gif. CHS has been a sociopathic little "god" for so many decades it would be impossible for him to have what would normally pass for friends. His family tried to intervene and all the GGWO higher-ups have either been banished or are struggling for power. Who's left?

[lana (lana)]

You can't force him. Hes got to admit it to himself. Jesus asked Peter twice,..."loveth these things more than me?" Peter answered YES, then Jesus said Then feed my lambs and My Sheep.
Friends are considered enemies to him It seems

[pressing_on (pressing_on)]

Bjerwin,
I am sorry about the loss you are facing, I pray God gives you great peace, He knows your heart, and he knows what your desire was in the situatuion.

I am shocked also about the whole cover him issue. If I had a friend who was trying to commit suicide I would certainly lead them to get professional help. CHS is doing the same thing, only he took the slow process. He has been in and out of the hospital far to many times.

We know many who have spoken up have been marked including his children, maybe if enough of you confront him he will have no choice.
Maybe if you stop supporting those actions he will get the help he needs.
Sometimes you have to be tough, for the sake of giving this man an opportunity to die in some kind of dignity speak up.
Unless this is the legacy you will help him choose to leave behind.

(Message edited by pressing_on on June 15, 2005)

[lana (lana)]

I said it wrong. It should have been Loveth me more than these things Peter said YES, sorry about that.

[lee (lee)]

BJ sorry for your loss.
Bravo, for sticking your neck out and doing what was the right thing! Thats the kind of person I know you to be.
Thank God for you and bless you today.

[bjerwin (bjerwin)]

Thanks to all of you. I DO appreciate the kind words. Tomorrow is the memorial service at 10:00 AM. Keep us all in your prayers.

[sojourner (sojourner)]

BJ, Thanks for sharing that, I needed to hear it even though I am so sorry about the reality behind it. You have a very vital place in this forum.
Love,
Patricia