dancer
09-28-2006, 09:18 PM
His mercies are new every morning. Oh that hurts to say sometimes when you are somebody who has been in this fire for this long.
Two days ago I was in the hospital, and man was it hard, I was stuck on oxgen and the whole nine yards. Basically I over extended my lungs on a work out from being sick for a while.
I knew I was going to court over the custody, visitation, and support of my son with Rhonda. In the zillion hearings I had with Keri it was fight, fight, fight, fight, he is crazy, he is mean, he is spooky etc. Sound familiar?
So Rhonda rhoo and myself went at it pretty hard. Thinking you know I need one more child I can't see. The pain I suffered living under the mean efforts of those who control Keri and have done such a good job pushing me away from my kids is unreal.
But the pain that I went through with Keri and myself doesn't hold a candle to the pain of the looses Rhonda and I went through. Lets face sin has some terrible results.
So all the way to the court house steps, on cell phones the threats are boiling over.
4 hours later two happy people emerged. Joint custody, no inlaws from GGWO looking over my shoulder telling me I am a crazy unfit father, who would hurt my kids. I got a mother who even with the pain that is unreal still layed down the sword for the sake of her son, his father and the people in the family.
One hearing, no lawyers, judges, etc. Just a clerk and a few questions, an order, and peace.
Why I have seen this crap happen with GGWO families were spouses are kept from their families to the point of breaking, and children who loose their parents. Unreal!!
Keri and I have done over 5 hearings and 20 months of us not speaking at all even about our kids (either she really doesn't care for them or she is really under control) we are nowhere close to being finished. 4 Kids don't see there father.
I am impressed with the handiwork of the Lord. I pray others find peace the way I have as of late.
Two hours after I left the courthouse I am in the same room with an ex and holding my son in my arms, nobody freaking out and acting mean. With the GGWO crowd I would not ever be allowed to see my kids unless a judge was hitting somebody with a peace of paper.Imagine somebody who doesn't care for you at least being civil, agreeable, caring and sincere about the kids? Not with GGWO.
Two days ago I was in the hospital, and man was it hard, I was stuck on oxgen and the whole nine yards. Basically I over extended my lungs on a work out from being sick for a while.
I knew I was going to court over the custody, visitation, and support of my son with Rhonda. In the zillion hearings I had with Keri it was fight, fight, fight, fight, he is crazy, he is mean, he is spooky etc. Sound familiar?
So Rhonda rhoo and myself went at it pretty hard. Thinking you know I need one more child I can't see. The pain I suffered living under the mean efforts of those who control Keri and have done such a good job pushing me away from my kids is unreal.
But the pain that I went through with Keri and myself doesn't hold a candle to the pain of the looses Rhonda and I went through. Lets face sin has some terrible results.
So all the way to the court house steps, on cell phones the threats are boiling over.
4 hours later two happy people emerged. Joint custody, no inlaws from GGWO looking over my shoulder telling me I am a crazy unfit father, who would hurt my kids. I got a mother who even with the pain that is unreal still layed down the sword for the sake of her son, his father and the people in the family.
One hearing, no lawyers, judges, etc. Just a clerk and a few questions, an order, and peace.
Why I have seen this crap happen with GGWO families were spouses are kept from their families to the point of breaking, and children who loose their parents. Unreal!!
Keri and I have done over 5 hearings and 20 months of us not speaking at all even about our kids (either she really doesn't care for them or she is really under control) we are nowhere close to being finished. 4 Kids don't see there father.
I am impressed with the handiwork of the Lord. I pray others find peace the way I have as of late.
Two hours after I left the courthouse I am in the same room with an ex and holding my son in my arms, nobody freaking out and acting mean. With the GGWO crowd I would not ever be allowed to see my kids unless a judge was hitting somebody with a peace of paper.Imagine somebody who doesn't care for you at least being civil, agreeable, caring and sincere about the kids? Not with GGWO.