Cara Roberta Bonnie Something from Keri Carrick on your remarks about Neil

[Anonymous (24.31.209.78)]

To Maria T and Bonnie and whoever is writing this bologna about Neil and my family I certainly don't appreciate it. Who do you think you are? You claim to be Christians who know the truth. Truth from whose point of view? Yours? If that's the case than it is merely an opinion. The last time I checked the Word of God is the truth.Are you GOD? Do you know Neil's heart? If Neil writes something you are offended by you certainly do not turn the other cheek, in fact you choose to write something that is not only hateful but elevates you in your flesh. You get upset when he says something about you back but expect him not to be upset when you were the one who started the conversation. That sounds fair doesn't it. Everthing that I have just read that you have posted is at its best slanderous.You don't build up Neil in truth and in love you tear him down which elevates yourself and puts you on a pedestool.That is not God's love,grace or mercy.It is also not motivated from the Holy Spirit. In fact it seems to be the opposite. Your opinions of people what you choose to write about them the subjects you bring up are certainly not lined up with what the Bible says the way a christian should behave. DO you know better than God? Did you die on the cross for everyones sins? Do you know the end from the beginning? What gives you the right to post your opinions on this page. God buried everyones sins in the deepest sea according to the Bible who are you to bring things up? You know one day we will all stand before God and we will not be able to use our emotions as an excuse for why we mistreated people when we knew the truth. I married Neil because I fell in love with the compassion he had for people. HE has never wanted to do anything but help people and when he does they turn around use him and walk all over him.I left because he was trying to do for other people when we had very little ourselves. I got tired of seeing him help people when I knew they were just using him. The only reason he even posts here is because he cares about people. He wants Greater Grace Church to do what is right which is repent before the congregation and have them seek help for those people who actually want it and want to be reconciled back with the Church. And for those of you who thinks he spends excessive time on factnet how would you know unless you are on there as much time as well. DO you even know who I am ? What I go through is not anyone's business it is between me and God. My marriage is none of your business whether or not I get along with Neil is none of your business.I love him and that is all that matters.The Bible says that sAtan comes to kill,steal and destroy. DO not let Satan be victorious do not let him use you to accomplish his goals. You need to go get down on your knees and repent for posting such slanderous things about my husband and my family. God's mercies are new every morning . God is faithful even when we are not. MY family and I are not suffering. Everything anybody goes through has been ordained by God from the beginning of time. People who call themselves Christians need to really think about what they are saying when they post here and think about consequences to decisions they make before they make them. The BIble is in black and white.There is no gray either the things you do and the choices you make are for God's kingdom or for Satans. Love in Christ,and prayers for those who have been hurt and are hurting. God is the answer what is your question. Keri Carrick

[Anonymous (24.31.209.78)]

Come Cara tell Keri how she is wrong!

[Anonymous (24.31.209.78)]

Pile on Keri Roberta.

[Anonymous (24.88.34.73)]

Now lets see if these three women pile on my wife, my 3 friends (all who are women) or they play peace makers instead.

I have yet to see Roberta apologize one time, even in the spirit of Christian love.

I think she would go after my wife is she had the chance. I hope I am wrong but nothing she said shows me otherwise.

Maria that statmemt you made about our marriage was not nice and uncalled for.

Have a nice night.

Neil

[Anonymous (24.88.34.73)]

bump!

[Muskyrose (64.12.117.20)]

neil, neil, neil,, neil, get over yourself.
NO ONE brought in your marriage. NO ONE BROUGHT IN your PERSONAL LIFE. NO ONE has SLANDERED YOU. In fact it is JUST the opposite. But YOU fail to see that. YOU CHOOSE to SEE what you want to see. YOU CHOOSE to ATTACK, ABUSE and TWIST WORDS to suit YOUR NEEDS. What I said what everyone was THINKING. I just decided to come out and tell you, you were being ABUSIVE. BECAUSE YOU ARE. Face it neil. Acknowledge it, Repent, Get Right before GOD and then Apologize. Be a MAN otherwise YOU are a TROLL to the MAX. It's your choice.

Everyone knows so why hide it? I'm not minicing words with you I'm telling you like it is.


I have seen NO, NONE, NADA, sign of any pastoral gift you so claim to have expressed on HERE. What I have seen is everthing but. Your claims over supposed slights are petty and juvinile at best. If you are a "Shepherd" as you so claim then why are you running around making silly demands of others that you yourself are not willing to abide by?

neil bringing you wife into this mess on here you have created is not fair to her. (if that is your wife who wrote the above post) That in itself is ABUSIVE. To bring her into somthing you created through your own lack of control? You actually had the GALL to do that? SHAME on you!

Frankly, it NOW, is beginning to make me wonder if the allegations against you may have had some credence. I know that is harsh but your actions on here have been extremely revealing. Since I am an INTELLIGENT WOMAN it doesn't take much thought to realize that if you can be so ABUSIVE to people on here who express an opinion. Well...(thought better left un expressed because you will go off once more and we certainly don't want you to develop high blood pressure and have a stroke.)

Your Brothers and Sisters in Christ have tried and tried to minister to you, to love you, to give you the space and understanding you needed. And yet you return that openess and caring with a constant barage of ABUSE. neil, do you GET IT at all? YOUR ACTIONS SPEAK LOUD!

I shall not reply to you on this thread anymore. I have better things to do with my life today. I have a daughter who is hurting because her birth father passed away. She is grieving over the loss. So your petty infantile temper tantrum means nothing to me.

Oh, and by the way I recieved a phone call late last night and was asked to convey a message to you from Pastor Maria. She said to tell you that she is not at home, she has not been home for the past several days and has NO ACCESS to a computer so she HAS NOT been POSTING. IF you THINK OLD TIMER is her, YOU are SADLY MISTAKEN.

NOW in the words of a few famous or infamous women on here "FLICK, FLICK"

>>>>>>>>>>----------Bonnie

[Nic (152.163.253.102)]

Bonnie,
You are saying to Neil that no one has slandered him or brought in his marriage or personal life. I suggest you read the post at 9pm last night from 'Sick of the Idiot' which is on the thread titled "Neil the Idiot, Neil the Abuser...etc". Here is a quote from that post:

"No wonder his wife and he don't get along at times. Can u imagine living with him?"

The entire post is slander of Neil. I am not defending everything Neil posts about others, but do not say that no one attacks his family or his personal life. Since this board started, there have been many cruel and vicious things said about his marriage, his mental state, his family, etc. The quote I used here is quite mild compared to what has been said about him.
So before you lecture him again, consider the whole picture

[Anonymous (24.88.34.73)]

NIC I am only guessing but the post you mention is pretty obvious who it is from.

If you go back and read the posts from SM and a few other the post about my family are a lot worse.

Don't think for one minute that Bonnie, Cara, and Roberta will remember those. There is nothing between GGWO and this board I have not been called.

Guess it ok to beat the literal hell out of somebody and say it is ok because I am something> .

Its ok Bonnie, I am sorry you feel that way about me. But I am not whom you seem to feel that I am. I appreciate much of the fact that you have copied so much information by hand. Having been doing the same it takes an incredible amount of time and energy.

God Bless those who curse me, and those who have been sincere about caring for us.

Neil Carrick

[M R (152.163.253.102)]

Nic, I am breaking my word this one time to post directly to you to say this. Whats up with you? Are you also insane? Can you not read? Look at the past few days buddy! Have you not seen all the threads started by neil that were of a derrogatory ABUSIVE manner directed towards two women in particular. THAT is WHAT I WAS ADDRESSING. GOT IT? GEESH! Would you like to borrow my eye glasses? http://www.factnet.org/discus/clipart/happy.gif I'm NOT talking about a month ago or two months ago. I'm talking about THIS WEEK!!!! WHAT is going on NOW!!! neil is exhibiting ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR NOW. GOT IT! IT is NOT ACCEPTABLE EVER. ABUSE TOWARD ANYONE whether it is physical, mental, emotional, or verbal is NEVER acceptable. That is what I am addressing.

I'm not slandering anyone. All I was doing was tell neil to stop. I was exercising my RIGHTS. As he was. You call my words slander? But his are what??? You don't think his aren't ABUSIVE? What's up with that? Sorry Bub but in anyones book his behavior is ABUSIVE and it is NOT acceptable.

If you are really concerned for him help him get some much needed help. He is in great need of it.

[Anonymous (24.172.44.98)]

Here is one of Bonnie's points: Is this long past due: Is this from yesterday or from months ago?

Keri, I shall certainly keep you in my prayers. I know you love your husband and I pray God will keep you safe from the mania that I see exhibited on this board. If he is half as bad as he is on here you must have your hands full."


How about this one?

Bonnie also wrote that:

"Your marriage was NEVER the question or brought up! SHAME, SHAME, SHAME, ON him."

When the post Bonnie was responding to that Neil responded to wrote:

"No wonder his wife and he don't get along at times. Can u imagine living with him? "

In the post the person said:

"I loved how Maria slapped him down a few pegs and now you as well. The man has it coming. And of course he was squawking about Maria using or abusing bandwith??? What the hell does he think he is doing himself with all the threads he has started on his mental rampage?"

"I tried to help his sorry ass when he was at GGWO. He was equally as proud and arrogant then as he is now. Pride comes before the fall, so get out of his way, Bonnie. That crash landing he has coming is really going to hurt bad.


I don't even know Maria. So how she helped me I have no clue. If its not Maria I don't know who it could be because only a handful of people were good to us at GGWO and actually tried to help and they were all staff members.

This is stuff from the last 24 hours.

[Anonymous (24.172.44.98)]

M R if you want it to stop than people who have attacked me need to be able to stop as well, and be considerate of others.

They care nothing but about their own agenda.

They want to be in control of the volume of the board.

I can tell you that isn't going to happen.

My family and friends out number those saying negatives about me, my family and people we love.

Neil

[Nic (64.12.117.20)]

Bonnie,
In response to your post to me at 12:07:

No, I am not 'also insane'.
No, I would not like to borrow your eyeglasses, but perhaps you need a new prescription. I did not say you slandered Neil. I said that the 9 pm post I referred to was slander of him, the one that talked about his marriage. The reason I even wrote to you at all was because you insisted no one ever brought up his marriage or personal life, yet you said he abused others. Please read my post carefully again and you will see what I am really saying. Maybe you should make a practice of seeing what people are really saying before you blast them.

[Anonymous (24.172.44.98)]

Cara,

My wife says she is not surprised you were the one who wrote back.

I tend to agree. Sorry if I was being a jerk via email.

I hate it when people start throwing people off to hell or assume they are abusive wife beating men who listen to the devils music. http://www.factnet.org/discus/clipart/happy.gif

Neil

[Anonymous (68.33.184.79)]

lol

[Anonymous (24.88.32.43)]

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[Anonymous (68.82.183.197)]

do something Satan doesn't want you to do tonight....PRAY

[dancer (dancer)]

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