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Username: danny07
Post Number: 1
Registered: 7-2007
Posted From: 68.204.238.207
| | Posted on Monday, July 30, 2007 - 12:42 pm: | 
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ok well check this out,ive pretty much exhausted every option but a message board..i dont know if this is the right place but as of right now it doesnt matter..heres my problem.ive been going out with this girl,only for a month but upon going out we where really good friends.now im 22 and shes 35.that wasnt an issue with us but a HUGE issue with her mom (who lives with her) and soon as her mom found out we were togather,she was against it the whole way,but she was learning to deal with it untill afew days ago.then my drunk ••• nephew was screamin at 330 in the morning in our apartment parking lot and my girls mom came out and tried calming him down but my nephew went and screamed at her saying i called her daughter a whore,that she was eazy and that was the only reason i was with her.i dont know the motive to why he'd do that other then jealousy cause ive certinlly never say those things.why he'd be jelous is beyond me also..anyway her mom i guess for whatever reason believes him and now pretty much added fuel to the fire.and to makes matters worse this apartment complex is seriously gossip central,everyone wants to be in everybodies buisness its out of hand,i guess neighbors have told her mom things about me 2 that arent quite true,i really have no idea where shes getting information but she needs a better source cause its just false....ive never done anything to my girls mom but be as kind and respectful as possible hoping that'd it blow over and just as it seem'd it could,this went off.now its become a problem for my girl cause her mom is just treating her bad,doesnt believe that im not like that.all im really looking for is maybe some advice on how i can show her mom that everything shes heard is just false,show her mom that im a good guy and that i would treat her daughter right,i dont want me and my chic to split up if its not obvious i care about her alot,so much so im posting on a message board trying my hardest to fix things..
some may say,well its only been a month.just break it off..but we met under not so normal circumstances and grown even closer since.
its hard man cause i really want things to work,i just dont know what i can do anymore,
i thought about writting her mom a letter,but
it seems her mom probably would just use that and flip it making matters worse,same as if i talk to her in person.she seems so narrow minded.does anyone have any suggestions? any advice? im open to anything,id appreciate it very much...Thank You for ur time,
Danny |