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Post Number: 8 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 69.203.148.239
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 26, 2006 - 1:39 am: |
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Guy who goes around looking for women in bad relationships with other men. He used to go to Rainbow Gatherings, but lately other similar groups. LH wants to get as many women pregnant as possible. HIs "vision" is some cult-like commune where he is in control. He sees nothing wrong with INCEST. I was with him in the 1980's and had to leave him after he got so CONTROLLING and verbally abusive.He knew to not use physical abuse except sometimes. He told me he actually STUDIED MIND CONTROL TECHNIQUES. I am not naming him, due to legal reasons. But he is in the West Coast of the USA. He is one man. He has wrecked the lives of different women over the years and still goes on. He has gone from different "intentional communities" over years searching to fit in, but he has to BE IN CONTROL. So he never stays long because they don't let him get in control. He tried to be in control at Rainbow Family gatherings. They even did not like him doing that! LH tends to be into NEW AGE spirituality. He is not into the Christian groups. He will go from one New Age group to another searching for women. He prefers women with children, but will go to single women. He will try to get them PREGNANT. Really! He told me he wanted to have several women at once and father many children! He said the women can have other men in their lives, but HE HAD TO BE IN CONTROL OF ALL THE FINANCES and of all the children! When he told me his "incest is natural" garbage it got me SICK. But he took advantage of my then-very depressed state of mind and I was trapped in a relationship with him as my "healer/lover" until I finally broke free of him! He put on a spiritual front. He acted all mellow and spiritual. He is in his late 50's now. But he is very healthy. He is in good physical shape. HE is well-educated in psychology and mind control techniques. He has also read many new age spiritual books and is well versed in world religions. Is he charismatic? Not really, but he can be very convincing to a desparate, depressed woman. Especially women who are in bad relatinships with other men. He targets abused women and women with young children who are single mothers! He is sexually attracted to LITTLE GIRLS and teen age girls too, but he has so far evaded any legal action against him. Boys don't interest him sexually, but he can be very controlling of children who "don't behave" as he wants them to! He would LOVE to be a cult leader, but he is not charismatic enough to succeed. He does well in CONTROLLING cult-like one-on-one relationships to women though! He will CHEAT on the woman sexually with other women and then try to make her feel GUILTY if she complains. He fosters dependence on him, while telling her he wants her to be independent!If he gets a woman very dependent on him, bhe will threaten to withold simple hugs and affection unless she gives into him sexually even when she does not feel sexual. He is obsessed with getting women pregnant. This guy is very active still on the West Coast of the USA. He goes to anti-war events, and perhaps to some Rainbow Family events still, I don't know since i stopped attending Rainbow Family events in the early 1990's. LH is dangerous! |
   
springflower New member Username: springflower
Post Number: 25 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 69.203.148.239
| | Posted on Thursday, January 04, 2007 - 3:20 am: |
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LH was also into SCIENTOLOGY. At least he knew their terms and used their techniques in his so-called healing techniques on me. I was NOT a Scientologist though so I am not an ex-member of their group. But LH may have been in it since he was very familiar with their terms and techniques. He was not an active Scientologist when I was with him though. Perhaps he was too cheap to continue their classes since he was very tight with his money. He liked their lingo and techniques though. He never told me the extent of his involvement with their group. He said I had "negative engrams" though! I later found out that was a Scientology term. He also used New Age techniques. Some like him in the Rainbow Family were part of other groups like Scientology and other groups. So there was a crossover to different groups with him and others. Either way, CULT METHODS were used by him on me. |