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jmlmom
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Username: jmlmom
Post Number: 1
Registered: 11-2006
Posted From: 68.91.95.57
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 29, 2006 - 4:47 pm: | 
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How can I convince my daughter that her friend/boyfriend is controlling her? Short verison is: she was a friend with this guy before they started dating. They dated for a year and then he told her that he was breaking up with her because he loved her too much to cheat on her. Since the break up he has dated many girls but has always come running back to my daughter when he decides to break up with one of the other girls. My daughter has dated a few times but everytime this exboyfriend breaks it off with someone, my daughter starts the breakup process with the person she is currently dating. I have tried to explain to my daughter that her ex is just a user but she just gets mad and says she still loves him. How do can you make her understand that she is being used and she is just getting hurt all the time? |
scaredmom7
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Username: scaredmom7
Post Number: 1
Registered: 8-2006
Posted From: 24.12.83.198
| | Posted on Thursday, November 30, 2006 - 10:24 am: |
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Isn't this painful? My daughter got mixed up with a creep from YWAM while working at a summer camp. Since this is a "religious" group he is using the Bible, Christian music, and interpreting scripture to control her. My Bible doesn't promote lying, sneaking around, and hurting people but apparently his does. He has convinced her that we are evil- how can we object to her becomming spiritual and "growing in faith?" JMLMOM, I recommend reading, "Saving Beauty from the Beast" by Vicki Crompton and "But I love him" by Dr. Jill Murray Don't give up!!} |
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