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pelfdaddy
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Post Number: 1014
Registered: 12-2006
Posted From: 166.128.14.133
Posted on Tuesday, January 08, 2008 - 1:19 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

When you are a young and flexible inductee, freshly recruited into the ranks of 2x4 ntcc church membership, your mind races with questions concerning the doctrines and practices of the church, most of which your peers are unwilling to answer, since they have been trained to refer you to the pastor only.

Upon opening up any given subject with your pastor, you will find him mildly taciturn. He will deflect your question with a studied and patient silence, smiling benignly as you shuffle uncomfortably in disapointment.

The first thing you teach yourself to do, in order to accept this evasion, is to see it as a kind of advanced spirituality, oddly reminiscent of the Shaolin wisdom dispensed in kung-fu films. It seems cool and a bit elevated, so you learn to see this behavior as normal, and to trust that your answer will come in some manner un-looked for.

As you become a more experienced member of the group, you learn (almost by osmosis) that the questions you asked in the beginning were merely an opportunity for your loyalty to be tested. You were given a silent choice: a) assume that your pastor is correct without his having to explain himself, or b) leave the church and have your character and motives attacked from the pulpit.

The silent non-answer was merely an invitation to either submit completely to pastoral authority, or GET OUT.

You realize that the problem all along was not the strange doctrine or habit of the church; the problem was YOU. You were a potential rebel simply because you had a question. You are the problem. After all, if you were not a rebel and a God-hater, why would you ask questions?

Later, when you leave the church in frustration, you might ask over your shoulder, "Why was it wrong to do 'X'?" to which the answer, offered as a self-evident fact of nature, will be "Why did you WANT to?" The problem is always YOU.
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charger
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Post Number: 39
Registered: 12-2007
Posted From: 71.32.36.197
Posted on Tuesday, January 08, 2008 - 1:38 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Don't forget the often repeated, "What is right with it."

What is wrong with me growing a beard? Response, "What is right with it."

What's wrong with wearing a necklace or a bracelet. Response, "Whats right with it."

This answering of a question with a question is an attemt to shut you up.
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charger
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Post Number: 40
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Don't forget the often repeated, "What is right with it."

What is wrong with me growing a beard? Response, "What is right with it."

What's wrong with wearing a necklace or a bracelet. Response, "Whats right with it."

This answering of a question with a question is an attemt to shut you up.
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clearwater
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Username: clearwater

Post Number: 42
Registered: 11-2007
Posted From: 67.183.231.124
Posted on Tuesday, January 08, 2008 - 2:14 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Hilarious!!!!!!!! ".....a kind of advanced spirtuality, oddly reminiscent of the Shaolin wisdom dispensed in kung fu movies" LOL. Are you saying the brethren all but prostrated themselves crying "MAAASTER!!!!" in broken english?
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pelfdaddy
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Post Number: 1015
Registered: 12-2006
Posted From: 166.128.215.60
Posted on Tuesday, January 08, 2008 - 2:24 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"Look at the moon..."
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nbrown
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Post Number: 7
Registered: 11-2006
Posted From: 71.39.121.221
Posted on Tuesday, January 08, 2008 - 9:21 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

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charger
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Post Number: 44
Registered: 12-2007
Posted From: 71.32.36.197
Posted on Tuesday, January 08, 2008 - 4:09 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Nbrown.
Are you married to Steve. If you are who I think, then we know you from Kansas. I guess in restrospect I remeber hearing that you guys left.
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mark_g
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Post Number: 10
Registered: 12-2007
Posted From: 72.201.122.179
Posted on Tuesday, January 08, 2008 - 4:33 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"So......You are the new student"....."Come Closer".
"But Master......You can not see". Of all things to live in darkness must be the worst"
"Fear is the only darkness". Strike me with your broom."(young Cain hesitates)"Go on....do as I tell you"!....."STRIKE"!!!!!
"Again"!!!!!!!!(Master Po takes the broom away from young Cain) "Here, Catch"!!!!!!
The moral of the story. Never assume because a man has no eyes that he can not see.

I think I could have learned more(a lot more) from Master Po and Master Kahn than I did at NTCC.
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nbrown
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Post Number: 10
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Posted on Tuesday, January 08, 2008 - 7:34 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

charger - I'm not married to a steve. I won't mention his name because he doesn't want anything to do with anything. This is just my little place to vent.

It seems like you left recently. I hope everything goes well for you.
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pelfdaddy
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Post Number: 1019
Registered: 12-2006
Posted From: 166.128.201.73
Posted on Tuesday, January 08, 2008 - 9:16 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Master Po's most sage advice:

"Time...for you to leave."
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rls
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Post Number: 39
Registered: 12-2007
Posted From: 65.28.108.137
Posted on Tuesday, January 08, 2008 - 11:20 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

One thing I have learned that is different from NTCC, (among other things), is that a pastor is open to questions where a new convert is wanting to learn something. Also, referring a new convert to fellow Christians is practised in many congregations, unlike in NTCC. Why is that? Because fellow Christians mature in the faith enough to tutor a new convert is the rule rather than the exception as it is in NTCC.
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clearwater
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Post Number: 43
Registered: 11-2007
Posted From: 24.17.248.210
Posted on Tuesday, January 08, 2008 - 11:38 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

This thread was about Kung Fu right?
meet me in the back!!!
www.//i2.photobucket.com/albums/y14/Csocha07/1a.jpg
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clearwater
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Post Number: 44
Registered: 11-2007
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Posted on Tuesday, January 08, 2008 - 11:41 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

This thread was about Kung Fu right? Meet me in the back!!

http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y14/Csocha07/1a.jpg
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rls
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Post Number: 41
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Posted on Tuesday, January 08, 2008 - 11:51 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Hmmm...I have 9mm remedy for that.:-)
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mark_g
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Post Number: 11
Registered: 12-2007
Posted From: 72.201.122.179
Posted on Wednesday, January 09, 2008 - 5:04 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Master Po's most sage advice:

"Time...for you to leave."


That was Master Kahn. You're going to have to go in the back room and practice your Kung Fu.
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clearwater
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Post Number: 45
Registered: 11-2007
Posted From: 24.17.248.210
Posted on Wednesday, January 09, 2008 - 9:44 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"Hmmm.....I have a 9mm remedy for that"

You obviously know nothing about a good kung fu movie. Handguns, missles and bombs are no account to "Dragons Claw" (LOL)

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