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     breaker_19_girl Intermediate Member Username: breaker_19_girl Post Number: 252 Registered: 8-2007 Posted From: 64.187.49.73 |
Hi to All, I am respectfully going to take a break from factnet for a bit. Those of you who want to ctct me you know how. I want to thank all of you who have helped me so much in the past few months. I also want to thank so many of you who have been grasious to me and complimenting me. It was through a lot of your healing that I found my own and not to mention the rocking great weekend at GCC. Great to see so many! This next little bit is purely about me! I found a lot of healing and strength in this forum. Ruth created it out of love and compassion and understanding about how hard it is to talk about the expereinces so many of us have suffered. No where else in this land can you find such an understanding. But, at one time when she created it, this place was full of love and compassion. It just does not feel that way to me anymore. There is way to much name calling, fighting and anger. People are spewing and nobody is listening. Halhelms said it best in his post on the press thread. The way I see it if people want a forum like that and want to live like we did 20 some odd years ago...then hey I say "party on". But, for me I want the negativity gone. I want to live light and in happy spirits. I want to be grateful that Ruth gave me a wonderful place and remember it like that. Remember the good times and not the bad. I found healing through your pain and I found healing through helping you with your pain. So, in essence you all helped me a great deal. I found what I am made of here and where my talents and my strenghts lay. I am so grateful to all of you for that. I found my triggers here and I know myself so much better. Again, you all helped and Ruth created that for me. But, as previously mentioned it is not safe, caring and compassionate here anymore. I am tired of fighting for it and burned out. I cry as I write this because I feel like I am giving up. But, I have to remember I have to protect myself. So in doing that I say good bye and thank you. I have left my e-mail for those who truly want to speak to me and share with me. For those in pain and want help. I won't turn my back on that. And, I have left it for those of you not on my facebook and or e-mail list all ready who might wanna shout and say hello some time. I wish you all healing and health and light and love. Sincerely, Liane Marie Ross lianeross@porchlight.ca | ||
| poormanspudding New member Username: poormanspudding Post Number: 9 Registered: 9-2007 Posted From: 99.232.177.62 |
Hi Liane, I know Factnet has become a bit of a slug fest and I understand you wanting to take some time away. Many posters have wanted the dissenters to go somewhere else and start their own "ra, ra, GCC" site. I think the reason both groups are hashing it out here is that both sides want to debate this. If this was not true, the "abused" group would find their safety on the Facebook Factnet site where access is limited to the people who will support them. So, there must be an element of both sides wanting to hash this out. |
