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no_no
Junior Member
Username: no_no
Post Number: 36
Registered: 12-2006
Posted From: 72.130.100.144
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 06, 2007 - 2:08 pm: | 
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Carman,
Everyone lies to themselves, just the humble are willing to figure it out and make changes. Being in the profession we are we know how in denial and narcissistic performers/actors can be. Do you care about that or do you care about what ever makes you look and feel good?
Ever attended film and TV seminars? We have many times in the past decade and there are specific courses for Directors on how to handle the narcissist actor. However, narcissism is not a character virtue and it is an opposite to real Christianity. Would you ever pray and ask for forgiveness for how your narcissism or any vanity has skewed your mentality towards yourself and towards others? Do you consider that a sin or a separation between you and God?
We wish you well. We wish you change and realizations that come from the Holy Spirit.
We wish you, really pray that you have a more humble heart and a more honest person. Acting humble, being self-effacing, is not truly being a humble man.
Singing about the truth and doing Time 2's is not being a truthful person.
You know if you have the temper or the manipulation or the victim psychology that you have been called out on. The question is, do you care and do you have the right set of responses?
If you have evil in your heart do you care about that or only your right to be seen as something better or innocent? How does a Christian handle confrontation?
Search me and try me and show me if there be any wicked way within me.
He who covers his sin will not prosper.
Bring every thought into captivity, and subject it unto Christ.
Walking in their vain imaginations, they darkened their foolish hearts, thinking themselve to be wise, they became fools.
Let all that you do in word or in deed be pleasing unto the Lord.
You seem to mistrust some of the right people and overly trust the wrong people and don't want to admit your vulnerability in this area.
This would start with trusting a parent who isn't as trustworthy emotionally or spiritually as they pretend or you fantasize, and a deep wish that people who should be trustworthy are.
Are you trustworthy? Really trustworthy in every area? Do you have any of the problems that people say that you do with lying and a temper and arrogance and ill will etc? Is there greed or incest and hate in your soul and words or prayers? Is that okay if you are offended? Do you have a Hammon spirit?
Do you have a problem with all of these women who have wanted to marry you or to use you in some way, constantly passing judgment on and being abusive towards, anyone who has made an effort to challenge you or express dissention?
We pray that you don't marry, (only according the will of our Father in Heaven, through Jesus our Savior);
the person you are involved with or anyone that is not who God would call you to marry.
(Message edited by no_no on February 06, 2007) |
no_no
Junior Member
Username: no_no
Post Number: 37
Registered: 12-2006
Posted From: 72.130.100.144
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 06, 2007 - 2:41 pm: |
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Creflo Dollar, was preaching the other day on the topic of and original covenant marriage details. He emphasized with real diliberation that
"God calls you to marry someone who you can give to." What can you bring to that person and what family can you create.
He was preaching and making some sort of, off color commentary, on "knowing what you are getting into", before you actually enter into a covenant of marriage.
You might want to call and get that series, its enlightening and biblically-culturally specific to God's views on marriage.
When you try to make a version of what God has placed inside of you, "work out", its a per-version.
We have no idea why you could enter into a covenant or marry in Vegas like you did and then added to that you divorced after seeking an anulment. What does all of that mean spiritually?Not what others cheer-lead you into thinking, or whoever lets you off the hook with some happy sounding grace doctrine.
Grace, restoration and forgiveness are real, but have you realized what you did and why? Your eyes, the spiritual countenance in them; in the photos on the site defending you that is rather new, are so deeply black.
Why is that?
Ask for life altering guidance and intervention. Don't believe your own thoughts or the intentions and plans of others in the place, the extremely important place that God's voice and plans have alone.
If you were being insightful and mature you would read through what others have to say, the good the bad the crazy and the inbetween.
You would go to your knees or some posture of real praying, that isn't for show or in the demand mentality or the victim mode either, and ask for your own eyes to be opened where they are scaled or blinded.
When I say we, I mean those who actually support you without lying about you or believing lies. You know the truth about yourself don't you?
Shouldn't you?
There are many women, including those who have apparently started websites just based on something they feel is a God call regarding you but its obvious they are in the flesh and their own mind and imagination.
Does the Lord want you to work on a piece that is like, for instance, the Bourne Identity (your idea like those websites are not really from the Lord?)or something completely different and with the wife that God teams you with?
Can you be the kind of husband and man she needs and that God wants to use you to gently and trustfully cover?
Would your egotism and self centeredness, and any manipulation in your way of doing things, be a hazard and hurtful to her spiritually and otherwise? Are you worthy? That is a very real question?
Are you ready? Do you ever equate something as being false, when its true and true when it is false? If you do, why do you do that? Do you want to know? Do the others who are controlling or enabling you in their own rite, want you to see 'this kind of thing'?
Who would be the person who could determine that and tell you with complete honesty?
Not the factnet-cult women or pastors who just may be in denial or duped in some way by you.
Is there a selfish and conrolling part of you that likes pastors praying against anyone who doesn't like you or who critisizes you?
Are you angry like Hammon or humble like our Lord right now?
Be Blessed and be strengthened with all might by the power of His Spirit in your inner man.
Have a broken and contrite heart.
Be sincere in all things.
Love your enemies and do good to those who hurt you.
Goodbye. |
gorobb
Junior Member
Username: gorobb
Post Number: 33
Registered: 12-2005
Posted From: 72.254.143.37
| | Posted on Monday, February 12, 2007 - 8:58 pm: |
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why everyone pick on carmen miranda,she dead singer |
grace2u
Advanced Member
Username: grace2u
Post Number: 720
Registered: 3-2005
Posted From: 70.178.195.217
| | Posted on Monday, February 12, 2007 - 9:19 pm: |
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Gorobb,
You have blessed me today when I thought it would be hard to be blessed! Thank you so much for the chuckle! |
grace2u
Advanced Member
Username: grace2u
Post Number: 721
Registered: 3-2005
Posted From: 70.178.195.217
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 13, 2007 - 12:10 am: |
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Not that carmen miranda being dead is funny - just the wrong identity issue took me off guard and the comparison of the two are funny. |
gorobb
Junior Member
Username: gorobb
Post Number: 34
Registered: 12-2005
Posted From: 72.254.161.221
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 14, 2007 - 6:07 am: |
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"wrong identity issue"
she in federal witness protection program? that is funny you right everyone would know her by basket on head |
grace2u
Advanced Member
Username: grace2u
Post Number: 729
Registered: 3-2005
Posted From: 70.178.195.217
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 14, 2007 - 7:09 am: |
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Of course, she just might take it off her head. |
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