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arron (arron)
Senior Member
Username: arron
Post Number: 1266
Registered: 11-2004
Posted From: 68.119.204.41
| | Posted on Monday, January 23, 2006 - 5:39 pm: | 
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if they were as living right as they say thye would not be cursing and especially from the pulpit . i would distance my self from them and made sure when i went to ANOTHER church that i myself did not engage in any thing that would be even considered flirting. you need to go to another church. |
cs1 (cs1)
New member
Username: cs1
Post Number: 13
Registered: 10-2005
Posted From: 138.163.0.41
| | Posted on Monday, January 23, 2006 - 6:39 pm: |
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nOW Arron why go to another church if the problem is the person your sending out to? "My husband feels that if there was a problem that it should have been dealt with privately and man to man."
it should have been !!!! now everyone in that fellowship is hurting because there Pastor is hurting. Hello!!! imaturity is the problem here.
and no respect for authority or lines drawn to freind's and minstries. Jesus said that you better not offend my little ones that should be the Q? here Man of God to God.... |
arron (arron)
Senior Member
Username: arron
Post Number: 1268
Registered: 11-2004
Posted From: 68.119.204.41
| | Posted on Monday, January 23, 2006 - 7:47 pm: |
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i recomended another church for the simple fact that the pastor or whoever will probally not clean up their act. and two that i beleive that the upc church is a cult and that it is no use talking to some ... some of them. i recomended another church because they need to get where the truth is preached. |
cs1 (cs1)
New member
Username: cs1
Post Number: 17
Registered: 10-2005
Posted From: 138.163.0.38
| | Posted on Monday, January 23, 2006 - 8:10 pm: |
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Brother arron I like you are you in minstry now? and if so how long ? |
arron (arron)
Senior Member
Username: arron
Post Number: 1273
Registered: 11-2004
Posted From: 68.119.204.41
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 24, 2006 - 12:02 am: |
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yes i am a pastor of apentecostal church. been pastoring since 1960. |
cs1 (cs1)
New member
Username: cs1
Post Number: 18
Registered: 10-2005
Posted From: 138.162.0.43
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 24, 2006 - 12:36 pm: |
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Mseliz, you asked for prayer or advice some of the stuff you have spoken to in your reply was not said earlyer. from what you have said at the top "I am a huge cut-up and flirt and the pastor, my friend has been naturally attracted to me and I admit I have enjoyed the attention."
is very much diffrent from
"I knew the pastor because I had previously worked for him. Growing up as a minister's daughter, I tend to take a man for a man who happens to be a servant of God, nothing more. I do have a great respect for the ministry, but I do not judge them for being human."
my comment was about the first not the last. |
cs1 (cs1)
Junior Member
Username: cs1
Post Number: 36
Registered: 10-2005
Posted From: 138.163.0.42
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 24, 2006 - 5:17 pm: |
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ok that is not selected to just Pentacostals ownly. that stuff happens in all den. and nonden |
arron (arron)
Senior Member
Username: arron
Post Number: 1281
Registered: 11-2004
Posted From: 68.119.204.41
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 25, 2006 - 9:24 am: |
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i have always kept any thing i was told by one of the congregations private. it went no further. nether my wife or myself would tell any one the things said. we considered it to be,, holy before GOD and words that should not be spoken to others |
arron (arron)
Senior Member
Username: arron
Post Number: 1285
Registered: 11-2004
Posted From: 68.119.204.41
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 25, 2006 - 2:18 pm: |
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mseliz.... my wife passed away 8 years ago this feb. i still hold to the same way when one tells me something it goes no further |
arron (arron)
Senior Member
Username: arron
Post Number: 1288
Registered: 11-2004
Posted From: 68.119.204.41
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 25, 2006 - 9:11 pm: |
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she was the best. |
