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How I healed the psychological
injuries from my abuse in a cult
By Lawrence Wollersheim
I am the Co-founder of www.Factnet.org the oldest and largest
internet source of free information on cults and mind control. I
am also the winner of an 8.7 million dollar lawsuit against
Scientology --- that Scientology was forced to pay!
I have waited far to long to write and share this short
statement of how I was healed of the greatest part of the damage
the cult of Scientology did to me through their use of mind
control.
To put things in perspective the psychological damage caused by
Scientology is generally considered the worst and longest
lasting of all cults. And, I did not just heal back up to where
I was before I was abused by Scientology, the simple process
below actually transformed my pain and loss into amazing
strengths and character qualities that I could have never
attained had I not done all 5 steps below.
If you are a cult abuse victim, the simple list below can be
used as a checklist to see what might be missing from your
healing program. Most of the information below is also equally
applicable to all other forms of abuse and victimization.
Step 1: Learn what happened to you by reading the accounts of
other similar victims.
Step 1a: If you are a victim of cult abuse, thoroughly learn
about the psychological dynamics of how mind control works. This
way you will be able to see more certainly and clearly how you
were systematically deceived and victimized by a technology in
the hands of the unscrupulous cult leaders or their middle
management manipulated manipulators.
Step 2: Get therapy from a specialist in the area of abuse that
you have suffered. Keep getting enough therapy until you are far
more functional and the cult created irrational thought loops
and induced phobias are no longer controlling the way you think
about or see the world. (Therapy will go far faster and easier
if you really don’t skimp on step 1 above.)
Step 3: Get real angry and sue your abuser. Anger over injustice
is appropriate and useful if used as a temporary motivational
scaffolding. More importantly when you sue the abuser you
reverse the psychological victim/oppressor dynamics radically.
You are now the society sanctioned legal oppressor and they are
the appropriate and legitimate victim of the social justice
process. I cannot over-emphasize how much it will help your
healing when you sue the oppressor even if you do not win!
When you see your oppressor on the stand in the court as a mere
and often pathetic mortal with no magical or special spiritual
powers, it does wonders to break more of the cult induce mindset
out of you and restore to you once again your own power. Suing
your oppressor also does much to teach others about their abuses
through the pubic exposure you bring to them in the disinfecting
light of the courts. Finally, suing them for legitimate abuse
increases their costs for wrongdoing and begins to make them
consider avoiding such wrongdoing which would cause more similar
suits in the future.
Because it is not my practice to answer individual questions,
shortly I will be publishing at www.factnet.org and emailing out
to the various cult support organizations exactly what I believe
were the most important things that I learned on exactly how to
win a civil lawsuit against a cult (particularly Scientology) so
you will also have the benefit of this hard won successful
lawsuit experience when you sue your abuser and continue
deepening your healing.
Step 4: If you were in a religious cult and the religious abuse
and spiritual betrayal has taken you away form your spiritual
journey and spiritual quest it is absolutely critical to
re-begin your spiritual journey and your inner more meaningful
life again. Deep spiritual betrayal is among the hardest of the
betrayals to overcome, but when you do you will heal faster and
deeper than on any other step of the process.
Step 5: Educate others on the cult and their abuses. I
co-founded FACTNet to do just that. Now there are many ways to
help you do this on and off the internet.
That is it! Do these five steps with a passion and your will
become stronger and better and healthier than you have ever
been. Your experience will become so transformative it will
border on transcendental.
I wish you the absolute best on your healing journey to
wholeness and to your new abilities and strengths.
Sincerely,
Lawrence Wollersheim
PS Please pass this simple “how to heal” email or web page to
everyone you know who you think could be benefited by this
simple power formula for the healing of cult abuse.
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